I'm Melissa

Nothing about me is typical; from my mind, creative ideas, my perspective, strategies and skills to my neurotype, connective-tissue, life experiences or professional path. I’m weird, in a lot of ways. I’ve always been a freelancer and entrepreneur, and over the last 20 years I’ve worked with extraordinary (sometimes twice-exceptional) clients to:

  • Attune to themselves so they can create and lead from their true wise minds, and highest selves. With my coaching they’ve been able to develop their nervous system architecture and personal narratives to be able to hold what they were seeking to receive when we began.
  • Design and scale innovative & effective hybrid online business models across a wide variety service professions (legal, marketing, consulting, psychology, therapy, fitness & health, coaching, educators, music engineering).
  • Create and craft Attuned Offers™ that uniquely meet needs in an unparalleled & leveraged way.
  • Reach, inspire & activate the right people on the internet to reach out for help
  • Design & Build High-Converting Paths (organic & paid advertising, touchpoint journeys, digital funnels, etc) that do not rely on coercive marketing 
  • Use technology and the internet to reach millions of people who need what they have to offer, and create artistic digital works (writing, videos, multi-media) that help their market while influencing people (through Attuned Influence™ not covert coercision)
  • Conceive of, design and run in-person transformational events & intensives ranging from 1-5 days. For clients who were therapists, coaches, consultants, attorney’s, professors, mixing engineers and artists.
  • Create, sell and deliver professional masterminds in their industries that brought dozens of high-acheiving professionals in their respective spaces together for community, leverage, training and business growth
  • Write compelling and highly converting email and sales copy for websites, product campaigns, email newsletters, and all the other things you can think of online.
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Melissa Herr

What brings you here to my neck of the internet woods? If it’s because you saw something I’m up to, and it resonated, well yay. That’s great. I love that.

I’m on the look out for people who are particularly resonant and aligned, and with whom I can accomplish my outcomes while they do the same (i.e. we’re ultimately playing for the same things, bringing different resources to the table). There’s a lot of ways I work with others, and you’ll see that as you make your way around my created universe. You’ll see what I’m offering and giving out, and how I serve people. If you have ideas or requests about how we could collaborate, or what you want to contribute to my effort, great! Best to scroll down and fill out the form so I can reach out to you personally, if that’s why you’re here. I’m a phone call kind of gal, so I’ll probably suggest I give you a call.

If you’re still getting a feel for what, if anything, our paths crossing might bring… cool, read on! If you’re a clinician or therapist, probably best to start with www.attunetogether.com, if you want to learn more about self-attunement, and how it shields you from being coerced by men or marketers, head over to www.misattunement.com.

This month is special, I’m beyond excited to offer up what I’ve been creating & using over the last two years to change my life. If you don’t know me and my story, then you’ve yet to see how many “things” I was priviledged enough to try in my journey to heal, transcend and alchmize my unique neurology and trauma so I could experience living in the way I always felt, deep down, was possible for me…

And so I could relate to myself, my body, other beautiful humans and life itself wired for connection and not protection.

As you’ll see if you follow along in some way, read my newletters, writing, or even just follow on TikTok over the coming months & years, there is a lot synthesized into the resources, frameworks, and models I’ve discovered, am sharing after all my intense research and filtering. I haven’t discovered anything ‘new’ persay, what I have done is integrate and synthesize an insane amount of research, history, innovations, breakthroughs and discoveries relating to human flourishing, human potential, and human pain & trauma. All for one reason: so others don’t have to read 500 books and spend a decade trying everything just to find their way to attunement, integration and their full potential for intelligence, experience and expression.

Think of this as a way to cut to the front of the line and get the best-of-the-best information and guidance on healing, growth, and development with less unnecessary roads that lead you somewhere you don’t want to go, or at least, not as much as somewhere else. Attunement is life changing personally, as a friend, lover, parent, or professionally as a leader in busienss, manager or creative entrepreneur or clinician.